I want to give you guys a little tip on something you can do to become an assertive man with women. I want you to learn to love to say “no.” Being a strong, assertive man is all about defining your boundaries, and demanding respect from people. How do you demand respect? You demand respect by making it clear what you will and will not allow as far as other’s behavior towards you. The easiest way to do this is to give a firm “no” when someone asks something of you that you have a good reason not to do.
Now, I am not telling you to tell your boss “no” or to tell police or other authorities “no” when they ask you to do something reasonable. I am saying that when someone wants something from you that is a clear violation of your boundaries or rules, is inconsistent with what your values or goals are, or that asks you to give more than you feel comfortable giving in the particular situation that you give a polite but firm “no” to keep people from taking advantage of you.
This ability to stand up for yourself when you feel someone is being unreasonable is crucial to strong assertive behavior. This assertive masculine behavior is crucial in order to be successful with women because it will cause you to get played or taken advantage of much much less.
I hope you use this little tidbit to make sure that you keep your respect when dealing with women. I urge you to try it out. As always, keep womanizing!
Your friend,
The Web Womanizer
